NEXT BABY NEXT LOL

From day one in this class we have been trying to create relationships with each other through our blog pages and disscssions threads. We have only been able to connect with each other through our words we had to guess what type person were communicating by the context of their postings. It’s hard to get an actual feel for how our classmates really are but we have learned many skills that will help you build a relationship with someone. Nexting is one of the biggest skills I have personally learned because what you say next can make or break the whole conversation. This applies to a lot of things we do in this class we have to conscious of the things say to each other. We all take things in differently because we come from different backgrounds.

The last write up I did on the rudiments of social intelligence talked about the componets of interpersonal intelligence these are skills that apply mostly when you are doing group work. Organizing groups this is the essential skill for the group leader this person must coordinate the group so the group has some type of strucuture and everyone knows what’s going on. The mediator is the person who will prevent conflict between the group member or resolve the ones that might come up at some point and time. Everyone in the group must be able to make a personal connection with each other that will make it easier to respond to someone else feelings. The last and final component social analysis being aware of other peoples feelings. Those are the main things that will make a group assigment go smoothly and when you lose one of them your group will fall apart.

Being open with others will in fact make others be open with you, and thus benefit the relationship and strengthen it as well (by building trust).http://saboy82.wordpress.com/

I completely agree with that statement no one will ever open up with you if you don’t open up with them. They will feel like why should I trust this person with my personal information and they wont ever tell me anything about their self. Everyone in the group can’t feel this way someone has to take the initiative and be the first one to open up so everyone in the group can start to connect and in most case the person that does that is usually the person that is going to be the group leader.